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Faith

Why Bother Giving Second Thought?

Why Bother Giving Second Thought? My life has sped up somewhat since publishing my first book. Though I thought the hard part was writing and finishing my memoir, I now realize that was easy compared to what came next: marketing the book. Selling my book requires me to process a lot of information and make…
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Family

Why Bother Remembering Childhood?

Why Bother Remembering Childhood? Childhood was a crucial time for all of us. In many ways, it set the stage for adulthood. It was during those formative years that our thinking was sculpted, our abilities were developed, and certain tendencies were ingrained. Thankfully though, our brains are not are not made of concrete. Instead we…
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Family

Why Bother to Consider One’s Good Qualities?

Why Bother to Consider One’s Good Qualities? Recently an acquaintance called to tell me some sad news. Her father recently committed suicide. Through her choking sobs she told me that the family was too torn apart by his suicide to even plan a memorial service. My heart hurt for her as I remembered how raw…
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Grief

Why Bother Waiting for Others?

Why Bother Waiting for Others? I grew up in a household with three older sisters, two older brothers and a younger brother. Learning to share was an essential character trait instilled in all of us. None of us had our own bedroom, let alone our own private bathroom, telephone or television. Not one of us…
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