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Mental Health

Why Bother to Reboot?

I do not mind computers as long as they are working. But, I’d rather not dilly dally around when something goes wrong with one because then I get intimidated. Can I fix it myself or do I need to call a technician?  I’d rather not call a computer technician. They have a language all their…
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Suicide Survivor

Why Bother With Boundaries?

Setting boundaries is handy. Knowing that we can say, “no”, or put physical distance between us and another means we know ourselves, at least a little bit. When we state a different opinion other than the popular one, or decline an invitation, we set ourselves apart. Socially setting ourselves apart requires a resilience to rejection…
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Suicide Survivor

Why Bother Noticing Another’s Fortitude?

Every year, mid-December, a few of my siblings and I always accompanied Dad on a hunt for the perfect Christmas tree. First, he’d drive to the various tree lots in the city and we’d read the hand painted plywood signs that advertised the prices. Then we’d return to the lot with the best deal.  Climbing…
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Misc

Why Bother Knowing We Matter

It is easy to get lost in the shuffle, the crowds and cacophony of life. After all, we are one of a billion other people that populate the surface of this earth. Yet, John Donne says in one of his poems entitled, No Man is an Island; “No man is an island, entire of itself,…
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