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Communication

Why Bother Listening to Your Self-Talk?

Self-talk are those one way conversations we have with ourselves that others may or may not hear. While some might converse silently within their heads, there are those who actually talk out loud to themselves. But, whether silently, or out loud, I am convinced that those one-way conversations we have which deflate, deprecate or demean…
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Suicide Survivor

Why Bother Considering Your Determination?

If one is determined they are resolute, steadfast and purposeful. These character traits can work for us, or against us. Historically speaking, I am a determined individual. I can be plucky, hell-bent and staunch. But, I have to keep a close eye on where determination is taking me.                     Happy Life I started out as…
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Suicide Survivor

Why Bother Becoming an Expert?

I grew up emotionally illiterate. Though emotions are felt by everyone, no one in my family acknowledged or validated them.  In my teen years, after my dad’s death by suicide, I’d often sequester myself in my bedroom. Sometimes Mom would cautiously open my bedroom door and set a newspaper article on my dresser. Like “Thing”…
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Suicide Survivor

Why Bother Noticing the Fog?

Driving in the fog is my least favorite way to drive for two reasons. First, I hate not being able to see more than a few feet in front of me. Driving through pea soup vapor, especially when it is dark outside, sets me on edge. Secondly, I have to wonder if I will ever…
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