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Faith

Why Bother Musing on Motives?

Old Motives There was a day when, if I’d been caught, I could have been arrested for the possession of more than one illegal substance. There was a time when my common response to someone I disliked was to simply flip my middle finger up into their face and walk away.  I used to pride…
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Mental Health

Why Bother Having a Good Cry?

Is Crying Good for Us? The other night, over meatloaf and oven baked carrots, I casually asked my husband, “Do you believe in having a good cry?” Even though we’ve been married for quite some time, I’ve learned that his default response to some of my inquiries can be a quizzical one. Over dinner that…
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Family

Why Bother Getting the Message?

My dad ended his life when I was thirteen. Consequently, I knew him for a shorter amount of time than my older siblings did and a little longer than my younger brother did.  Yet, I knew Dad long enough to learn and remember some of the lessons he taught us.  Imprinting Lifelong Lessons All of…
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Faith

Why Bother Saying, “Yes,” to God’s Love?

Risky To love another person or to allow ourselves to believe that someone loves us is a risky venture. There are no guarantees that our love or acceptance of another’s love will result in a “happy ever after,” experience.  This is why it took three proposals from my husband-to-be before I agreed to marry him.…
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