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Gratitude

Why Bother Considering Our Role Model?

Role Models My parents were both very conscientious about training my siblings and me in all things that mattered to them. They instilled in us the importance of respecting others, even if you didn’t like them. They also inspired us to love and obey God which meant going to church on Sunday without questions, comments,…
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Learning

Why Bother Unlearning?

Learning Presently, I am reading Hillbilly Elegy, A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by J.D. Vance. The author and I have something in common. We both grew up with adverse childhood experiences, and our childhood trauma left its mark on us.  Mr. Vance uses the term “learned helplessness,” to describe something he…
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Forgiveness

Why Bother Shedding a Heavy Heart?

Shedding  Spring has sprung and there are several tall tale signs indicating this seasonal shift. One particularly interesting sign of spring is shed hunting.  The male species of the Cervidae family, also known as deer, elk and moose, shed their antlers in the late winter months. When the snow melts, shed hunting begins. Those who…
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Forgiveness

Why Bother With an Accurate Estimation?

 Estimating When we estimate, we consider, assess, or evaluate. Estimating is a regular and natural thing we do on a daily basis.  For instance, we consider how much time it will take to get from one place to another, we assess the cost of a vacation before taking one, and we evaluate the pros and…
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