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Why Bother Telling the Truth About Suicide?

Why Bother Telling the Truth About Suicide? Recently, a friend called to tell me the sad news that she’d lost her father to suicide. Knowing she has a preteen son, I wondered if she’d tell him the truth about his grandpa’s death. Thankfully, she did.  Telling the Truth Telling a child the truth about a…
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Faith

Why Bother Giving Second Thought?

Why Bother Giving Second Thought? My life has sped up somewhat since publishing my first book. Though I thought the hard part was writing and finishing my memoir, I now realize that was easy compared to what came next: marketing the book. Selling my book requires me to process a lot of information and make…
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Family

Why Bother Remembering Childhood?

Why Bother Remembering Childhood? Childhood was a crucial time for all of us. In many ways, it set the stage for adulthood. It was during those formative years that our thinking was sculpted, our abilities were developed, and certain tendencies were ingrained. Thankfully though, our brains are not are not made of concrete. Instead we…
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Family

Why Bother to Consider One’s Good Qualities?

Why Bother to Consider One’s Good Qualities? Recently an acquaintance called to tell me some sad news. Her father recently committed suicide. Through her choking sobs she told me that the family was too torn apart by his suicide to even plan a memorial service. My heart hurt for her as I remembered how raw…
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