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Communication

Why Bother Leaning In?

While raising our three sons, the nightly routine of tucking them into bed at night turned me into a good listener. After the busyness of an ordinary day and before falling asleep at night, they needed my undivided attention. It only took a few minutes for them to share what was on their heart, ask…
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Friendship
Communication

Why Bother Letting Others In?

When I was thirteen and my father took his own life, it left me not only bereaved, but also thoroughly confused. If the one I’d loved and trusted the most in my life could abruptly abandon me, who was trustworthy? I concluded that no one was trustworthy.      Life is Not a One Person Event  For…
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Calmness
Faith

Why Bother Pondering?

Socrates is credited as saying that an unexamined life is not worth living. But, how often do we take the time to examine, ponder, ruminate, mull over, reflect, speculate, muse, wonder or meditate? Unless we take the time to ponder how we live our lives, pondering will never be a part of our lives. A…
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Communication

Why Bother Learning a New Language?

When I was eleven my family moved from Aberdeen, South Dakota to Durango, Colorado. Living in Durango I encountered a new culture at my junior high, Spanish speaking teachers and students. I’d grown up in an English speaking home, and English speaking schools. The sound of Spanish was foreign to my ears and though I…
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