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Why Bother Not Letting Your Forgiveness Run Dry?

Forgiveness Running Dry? I had a brother-in-law who used to say that guilt is the gift that keeps on giving. I’d like to say that a better gift to keep on giving is the gift of forgiveness. Forgiveness cannot be purchased, wrapped up and given as a gift. But, once we have experienced it for…
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Why Bother Reconciling With Yourself First?

Reconciling With Yourself First When I get a question from a reader, it tells me two things. First it tells me that there is someone out there reading my blog. Yeah! Secondly it tells me that my writing is causing my reader to respond in some way in which case is another yeah.  In response…
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Why Bother Building a Reputation as a Forgiver?

Reputation as a Forgiver I’ve got a reputation. Among my family members, I’m known for my delicious chocolate chip cookies and cinnamon rolls. With my closest friends, siblings and spouse, I’m known for telling the truth, even if they didn’t ask for it. Finally, those who attend my yoga classes know for certain that they…
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Why Bother Establishing Forgiveness as Our Mindset? Part 2

Our Mindset  A mindset is a pattern of thought we establish with ourselves. It is how we’ve decided to think about something. Our mindset is based on what we believe to be true. The only time our mindset changes is when we decide that what we once thought of as true, is not.  I’ve learned…
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