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Why Bother Seeing Our Siblings as the Gift They Are?

Our Siblings There was a time when I had to learn to get along with my siblings because Mom said so.  Then there was the time when I alienated myself from my siblings because I didn’t like them so much. Now, there is mutual respect and emotional bonding among us. What happened? The short answer…
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Why Bother Having a Relationship With God?

Relationship With God? If someone were to ask me about my relationship with God I’d have to say that it is both personal and active. Personal because I believe God knew me even while I was being formed inside my mom’s womb; active because good relationships are not passive. People assume that because I believe…
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Why Bother Getting Along With Our Adult Children?

Our Adult Children Though at first I was uncertain and fearful about becoming a mom, the second I cradled our first born in my arms, I felt something fierce and tender at the same time; my heart was transformed into the heart of a mom.  Motherhood is complex. No matter how old our offspring get,…
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Why Bother Knowing What We Think About Our Mothers?

Thinking About Our Mothers Our moms have a long lasting effect on our lives. Mine is dead and gone, but that does not mean she’s forgotten. What I think about her and how I think about her still matters because thinking, even about a parent who is dead, affects our words and actions. My expectations…
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