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Relationships

Why Bother Attending Funerals?

Why Bother Attending Funerals? The first funeral I attended was my grandfather’s on my mother’s side. It was not a celebration of life, neither was it a memorial service. It had all the parts of a funeral; a visitation, the church service, committing the body to the ground and a reception. At the time he…
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Beauty

Why Bother Talking With Strangers?

Why Bother Talking With Strangers? Recently, while taking a walk in the park with my camera trying to capture the beauty of the fall colors, I noticed an artist and stopped to admire his work. He was also trying to catch the beauty, but with a paintbrush and canvas instead of a camera. I stood…
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Communication

Why Bother Letting Go Of False Guilt?

Why Bother Letting Go of False Guilt? Among my variety of friends, I have noticed how some of them carry more false guilt than others. My observational data shows how most of those who are first born children or older children in the family are the ones who feel the most obligated. Those farther down…
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Faith

Why Bother Remembering Our Religious Upbringing?

Why Bother Remembering Our Religious Upbringing?  My parents were both raised Catholics, and they in turn raised my siblings and me in the same religion. As infants, we were all baptized, and later, attended parochial school where we received instruction for the sacraments; confession, communion, and confirmation. Like all the other eight-year-old, while in second…
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