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Communication

Why Bother Listening To Another’s Heart?

Why Bother Listening To Another’s Heart? I did not set out to become a good listener, but my children trained me to listen carefully to their hearts. Tucking them into bed at night were the most intimate interludes with my sons. After the busyness of an ordinary day and before falling asleep at night, they…
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Communication

Why Bother To Inquire?

Why Bother To Inquire? It is easy to assume and harder to inquire. We are better at jumping to conclusions than we are at uncovering facts. We may form hasty judgments about circumstances, and take for granted we understand someone. Yet, we may also be fooling ourselves. If we don’t want to presume we know,…
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Kids

Why Bother Looking Forward?

  Why Bother Looking Forward? When summer break from school began, I looked forward to the expanse of time off from work. I anticipated lingering over breakfast while reading a good book, and riding my bike instead of the daily drive to work. I anticipated backpacking, hiking, and a road trip or two with my…
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Communication

Why Bother To Labor At What You Love?

Why Bother To Labor At What You Love? At some point in our childhood, all of us were asked the same question, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” In other words, how do you plan to generate an income for yourself? The first time someone posed the question to me, I…
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